Ok, so here’s the deal. At one point we both had a thing for/with the same guy. I know what was going down, as cryptic and secretive as you thought you were being. I know. So there is no point in denying it, and hey I even understand. He was Mr. “I Like My Privacy”, thinking it would keep us from knowing about eachother. I got caught up in it too, I swear I did. But what makes no sense to me is the random but apparent animosity aimed toward me. Like we can’t be civil just because you’ve got some unspoken underlying rivalry with me. I have no problem with you, but I do have a problem with you thinking that comparison or competition is necessary. I’m not on him anymore, maybe you are, hey to each their own, but I just get tired of the extras. Just to clear up some misconceptions that seem to be floating around: No one is hating on you, I don’t know you to have a problem with you. I do not want anything of yours, you can have him, please believe me. I don’t know what he’s told you about me, I honestly don’t care. Just know while he’s whispering sweet nothings in your ear, he’s coming to me on some “she’s in love with me but I’m not feeling her” shit. I know the game, the question is, do you?
Oh, and if you think this is about you then it probably is. Wanna talk about it? I’m here and willing to discuss it. If not, that’s great as well. Whatever it takes to end the 9th grade shit. It really is just irritating and unnecessary. So this is the last time I’ll be mentioning it, and I’ll go back to trying to get better instead of worrying about this foolishness.
Just clearing the air,
Neek
January 29th, 2009 - 7:14 pm
Been there done that with a man who thought he was SOOOOOO sly. Until one day I was shopping at where his other woman worked and I mentioned his name to a friend and shes all ” You mean Ryan ***” Obviously she was being nosy, but thank God for that! So I was like “Yep…hes my boyfriend” anf then she goes, “No way…hes mine” and showed me their picture…Wtf?!!? Karma or fate
I just sook it off. The girl hated me and I didnt understand when we were both on the name boat.
I learned you have to shake it off and say NEXT!
January 29th, 2009 - 9:34 pm
Man Stefanie, that is really what I am coming to realize. But it just irritates me that she can’t seem to see that we are not eachother’s enemies. He was playing both of us. She has no reason to dislike me, she doesn’t even know me. But people are going to do what they do, can’t really control how other people choose to deal with things. Just hope the childish shit can be squashed.